A custom, guided prenup for complex finances and high net-worth couples
For couples whose finances have a lot of moving parts: unvested equity, a family trust, multiple operating businesses, or several assets that interact. Drafted for your specific situation, independent attorneys for each of you, with a flat fee and availability to start today.
Bespoke Prenup
A guided, consultative prenup for couples with substantial assets or financial complexity. Every provision drafted for your situation and considered against the others, with independent attorneys you each choose.
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What is a Bespoke prenup?
A Bespoke prenup is a comprehensive prenuptial agreement for couples with a large amount of assets or financial complexity, where each provision should be considered both on its own and against every other provision. It includes everything in Lawyer Review — an independent attorney for each partner, drafting, consultations, revisions, and online notarization — plus drafting for unique clauses, more time with your attorneys, concierge support, and rush service included.
- Best for
- Substantial assets or interacting financial complexity
- Pricing
- Custom, flat fee price after a free consultation
- Attorneys
- An independent attorney for each partner, chosen by each of you
- Scope
- Everything in Lawyer Review, plus unique provisions
- Access
- Calls and video meetings, white-glove concierge
- Rush service
- Included at no extra charge
Built for your finances today and in the future
When several parts of your financial picture interact, a decision about one changes the right answer for another. These are the situations Bespoke is designed around.
Equity that keeps arriving
Vested and unvested holdings, RSUs and options, refresh grants that land throughout the marriage, and appreciation of separate property that grows through your own work rather than on its own. Each gets treated explicitly instead of falling to default state law.
Family trusts
Which distributions stay separate, how future distributions are treated, whether income generated by trust assets is separate or marital, and how property bought jointly with trust funds is handled — coordinated with the estate planning already in place.
Protections that change over time
A marital vesting schedule, where what the agreement protects shifts at milestones you choose: years of marriage, the birth of children, or a career set aside for the family. Not all-or-nothing, and not fixed on the day you sign.
A business with a future
Past labeling the business as separate property: future appreciation, reinvested profits, new investors, a potential sale, and what happens if one partner later joins the company. Planning for where the business is heading, not only where it stands today.
Many pieces, all interacting
Rental properties, student loans, cryptocurrency, jointly purchased property, and plans to buy more. No single item is unusual; the number of interacting parts is what puts it past a standard checklist.
A guided, comprehensive process and support
Everything in Lawyer Review, plus the room to draft provisions that have to be designed around each other — without hunting for firms or paying by the hour.
Independent Guidance
An independent attorney for each partner, drafting, consultations, revisions, and online notarization, all running through the First platform.
Strategic drafting
Advanced financial provisions, complex trust handling, and marital vesting schedules, designed for your situation.
Attorneys ready today
No searching for firms, no retainers, and no waiting on callbacks. Both attorneys come from First's vetted network and the flat fee lands thousands below engaging two attorneys traditionally.
Calls and video meetings
Talk through provisions with your attorney directly to figure out what's best and what to consider.
White glove concierge access
Premium support throughout the process, so you always know what's happening and what's next.
Rush service included
Built-in at no extra charge, giving you flexibility when it counts.
How First Bespoke stacks up
Couples with complex finances usually weigh three options. Here is where Bespoke sits.
| First® Bespoke | Traditional Attorney Engagement | Template-Based Online Prenup | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Price | Custom flat quote, scoped to your situation | $6,500–$20,000+ for complex drafting, billed hourly | Low flat fee, fixed scope |
| An independent attorney for each partner |  You pick yours, your partner picks theirs | Each partner hires their own |  No attorney representation |
| Provisions designed around each other | Trusts, equity, and vesting schedules considered together |  Depends on the firm | Fixed question set |
| Calls and video meetings with your attorney | Throughout, at the flat quote | Billed hourly | No attorney involved |
| Process runs through one platform | Questionnaire, drafting, review, signature, with email throughout | Email, in-person, paper | Online and self-directed |
| Concierge support | White-glove, start to finish | Varies by firm | Typically a help center |
| Rush service | Included | Difficult, depends on attorney calendar | Varies by service |
| Timeline | Days to weeks, rush included | Weeks to months | Fast, within a fixed scope |
How Bespoke works
A consultative process, on the same platform that runs every First prenup. You always know where the agreement stands and what's next.
1
Start with a consultation
Tell us what your finances contain. We confirm whether Bespoke is the right fit or whether Lawyer Review covers you, then scope a flat quote. It's free, and nothing is committed at this stage.
2
Choose your attorneys
Each partner selects their own attorney from our network of vetted family law attorneys. You pick yours, your partner picks theirs, and both are ready to start working with you right away.
3
Design the agreement together
Work through every provision with your partner and your attorneys over calls and video meetings. Each one is considered on its own and against the others, so the agreement holds together as a whole rather than as a stack of separate clauses.
4
Sign and notarize
When both partners and both attorneys are aligned, you sign. Online notarization is included wherever remote online notarization is legally accepted; otherwise we make the final agreement available to you for local in-person notarization.
Is Bespoke the right fit?
Bespoke is right for you if…
- You hold unvested equity, refresh grants, or compensation that keeps arriving during the marriage
- You have an interest in a family trust that needs to work alongside existing estate planning
- You own an operating business, especially one heading toward new investors or a sale
- You want protections that change over time, on a marital vesting schedule
- Several properties, entities, accounts, or obligations have to be organized together
- You want the drafting scoped to your situation rather than to a fixed package
Lawyer Review is a great fit if…
- You want an independent attorney for each partner
- Your financial picture is significant but not complex
- You own a business or hold equity, and the question is how to treat it rather than how the pieces interact
- $3,500 flat fits the situation better than a custom quote
Complex situations, handled.
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Bespoke questions, answered
What is a Bespoke prenup?
A Bespoke prenup is a guided and comprehensive prenuptial agreement for couples with a large amount of assets or financial complexity, where each provision has to be considered both on its own and against every other provision. It includes everything in Lawyer Review — an independent attorney for each partner, drafting, consultations, revisions, and online notarization — plus drafting for unique provisions, calls and video meetings with your attorneys, white-glove concierge support, and rush service at no extra charge.
How much does a Bespoke prenup cost?
Bespoke is custom-priced. You'll get a flat fee quote after a free consultation, once we understand what your situation involves. There are no hourly bills and no retainers.
For reference, having a complex prenup drafted traditionally generally can run $6,500 to $20,000 or more, billed hourly. First's other packages are flat-fee as well: Self-Serve is $649 and Lawyer Review is $3,500.
How is Bespoke different from Lawyer Review?
Lawyer Review handles the vast majority of complex cases at a $3,500 flat fee, including business ownership, equity compensation, trusts, prior marriages, and blended families. Many couples who want independent counsel are well served there.
Bespoke is for the most complex situations. It adds:
- Drafting for unique provisions that have to be designed around each other
- Calls and video meetings with your attorneys
- White glove concierge support through the whole process
- Rush service included
If your situation is better suited for Lawyer Review, we'll tell you at the consultation.
Who should choose Bespoke?
Bespoke tends to be the right fit when several parts of your financial picture interact, especially if a decision about one changes the answer for another. Common examples:
- Unvested equity, refresh grants, or other compensation that keeps arriving during the marriage
- An interest in a family trust, especially where it needs to work alongside existing estate planning
- Multiple operating businesses, particularly one heading toward new investors or a sale
- Protections you want to change over time, on a marital vesting schedule
- Several properties, accounts, entities, or obligations that have to be organized together
The free consultation helps to confirm the right package for you prior to purchase.
Do we each get our own lawyer, and do we choose them?
Yes. Each partner gets their own independent counsel and each of you selects who you want to work with from our network of vetted family law attorneys.
Independent counsel for each partner is also the strongest structural footing for enforceability. Several states treat it as a condition for certain waivers; California is the commonly cited example for spousal support waivers.
Does a complex prenup mean we are ultra-wealthy?
No. Complexity is about how the pieces interact, not the size of the number. A couple with two rental properties, student loans, some cryptocurrency, and a vacation home bought with a parent has more moving parts than a couple with a single large brokerage account.
If your finances are layered but not structurally complicated, Lawyer Review at $3,500 is a great fit.
Can a Bespoke prenup handle equity compensation and business ownership?
Yes. On the equity side, that means vested and unvested holdings, RSUs and options, refresh grants, and how appreciation of separate property is treated when it grows through your own effort during the marriage rather than on its own.
On the business side, it means going past labeling the business as separate property: future appreciation, reinvested profits, new investors, a potential sale, and what happens if one partner later joins the business.
How does the consultation work?
It's free, and there's no commitment. We walk through your situation, confirm which package is the right fit, and provide a quote (flat fee like all First prenups). You'll know the price before you decide anything. Book a consultation.
How long does a Bespoke prenup take?
It depends on how much there is to work through and how quickly both partners and both attorneys can review. Rush service is included with Bespoke at no extra charge, so a firm wedding date is something we plan around. Your lawyers will be able to confirm a realistic timeline.
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