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• 31 Trends Do Prenups Cause Divorce? What the Research Actually Says No, prenups don't cause divorce. In The Free Press, Arthur Brooks argues that prenups and separate finances quietly erode a marriage, citing a 2026 study in Family Relations. That study is correlational, and its own author found no link among couples who communicate well. Meanwhile prenup adoption is climbing and the U.S. divorce rate has fallen about 40% since 2000.
  Liz Federowicz, Esq. · Jul 11, 2026
• 32 Law Demystified Can a Prenup Decide Who's the Primary Caregiver? What Custody Clauses Can and Can't Do A prenup cannot decide child custody or who becomes the primary caregiver; under the Uniform Premarital Agreement Act, courts decide those questions at divorce based on the child's best interests.
  Diego Tramontin · Jul 7, 2026
• 33 Law Demystified Does a Prenup Have to Be Filed With Your Marriage License? Where a Prenup Actually Lives A prenup is a private contract that becomes effective upon marriage under the Uniform Premarital Agreement Act; it is not filed with your marriage license or with any court to be valid.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jul 5, 2026
• 34 News Half of U.S. Adults Now Say They'd Sign a Prenup: What the Attitude Shift Does and Doesn't Mean Roughly 50% of U.S. adults said they support the use of prenups, according to a 2023 Harris Poll for Axios, up from 42% the year before, though only about 1 in 5 married couples has one.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jul 4, 2026
• 35 Law Demystified Why Last Minute Prenups Get Challenged: Timing, Duress, and How Early to Start A last-minute prenup is not automatically invalid, but it is more vulnerable to challenge. Courts generally look at whether both people signed voluntarily, had enough time to review the agreement, received proper financial disclosure, and followed state-specific rules.
  Diego Tramontin · Jul 3, 2026
• 36 Education Prenups and Pre-IPO Equity in California: How RSUs, Vesting Cliffs, and Cap Tables Are Treated In California, RSUs, stock options, and founder equity that vest during marriage may be treated as community property in divorce. A California prenup can set a clearer rule for existing and future equity compensation before default property-division formulas apply.
  Adam Hollander · Jul 11, 2026
• 37 Planning Why Viral Prenup Advice on TikTok Can Steer You Wrong: What #PrenupTalk Leaves Out Social media has made prenups a mainstream conversation. But viral prenup advice can be misleading because enforceability depends on state-specific rules, full financial disclosure, voluntary signing, timing requirements, and limits such as the inability to waive child support or predetermine custody.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jul 1, 2026
• 38 Planning Prenups Don't Just Protect the Rich: What Middle-Income Couples Gain From Debt and Asset Clarity Prenups are not only about assets and income. U.S. household debt reached a record $18.8 trillion in Q1 2026, according to the Federal Reserve Bank of New York, and a prenup lets couples decide who owns and owes what before marriage blends it all.
  Diego Tramontin · Jul 1, 2026
• 39 Education Prenups Are Not Just for Celebrities: What Separate Property and IP Clauses Do for Ordinary Couples A prenup’s separate property clause identifies which assets stay yours alone, which can include intellectual property for items including creative work, business ideas, royalties, or other IP-related income. These provisions are useful for ordinary couples too, not just the wealthy, including people with savings, a side business, an inheritance, freelance work, or creative income.
  Diego Tramontin · Jul 1, 2026
• 40 Planning Can a Prenup Be Unfair on Purpose? What a 90/10 Split Tells You About Fairness Limits A prenup can favor one partner without being invalid. Under the Uniform Premarital Agreement Act, the bigger enforcement risks are lack of voluntary consent, unconscionability at signing, and inadequate financial disclosure.
  Diego Tramontin · Jul 1, 2026
• 41 News Taylor Swift's Prenup: What a Billion-Dollar Agreement Could Include (2026) Reports say Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce are expected to sign a prenup before a rumored 2026 wedding, though neither has confirmed any terms. Here's what a high-asset agreement like this typically addresses, and how the same mechanics apply to everyday couples.
  Adam Hollander · Jul 1, 2026
• 42 Planning A Prenup as a Financial Planning Tool (2026): Disclosure, Shared Goals, and the Money Conversation A prenup is a financial planning tool, not just a divorce document. The process requires full disclosure of assets, debts, and income, and a real money talk which can bring greater financial alignment to couples heading into marriage.
  Adam Hollander · Jun 24, 2026
• 43 Prenup Basics What Happens to Premarital Assets That Disappear During Marriage? A Prenup Gap Explained Under many states’ default divorce-property rules, a separate-property claim often requires tracing the asset to a separate source; if it is spent, retitled, or commingled beyond tracing, the claim may be lost or reduced. A well-drafted prenup defines what remains separate and how commingling, proceeds, substitutions, and appreciation are treated, subject to governing state law.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jul 14, 2026
• 44 Planning How to Store Your Prenup After It's Signed: Soft Copies, Hard Copies, and Redundancy A prenup does not need to be filed with any court to be valid; it is a private contract you store yourself, ideally using the 3-2-1 backup rule popularized by photographer Peter Krogh.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jun 22, 2026
• 45 Law Demystified Does It Matter Where You Sign Your Prenup? How Jurisdiction Affects Enforceability Prenups are recognized in all 50 states and D.C., but only 29 states plus D.C. have adopted the Uniform Premarital Agreement Act, so where you sign can shape how your agreement is enforced. For transferability across states, the biggest practical safeguards are a clear choice-of-law clause, full financial disclosure, adequate time before signing, voluntary execution, and separate legal counsel where advisable or required.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jun 24, 2026
• 46 Law Demystified When No Prenup Exists: What State Default Law Actually Decides for You Without a prenup, 41 states divide marital property by "equitable distribution" and nine use community property, according to the Uniform Law Commission and state family codes. Your state's default rules decide for you.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jun 24, 2026
• 47 Planning Do Prenups Reduce Conflict During a Divorce? What the Data Shows A prenup can lower divorce conflict by settling asset and debt questions in advance, while both partners are cooperative and fully informed, leaving fewer open issues for a court to decide later. But the prenup process of going through full financial disclosure and aligning on money matters early can also strengthen a couple for the future.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jun 24, 2026
• 48 Law Demystified Is a Prenup a "Living Document"? When and Why Couples Revisit an Agreement After Marriage A prenup is not set in stone: under the Uniform Premarital Agreement Act, a signed prenup can be amended or revoked after marriage by a written agreement signed by both parties.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jun 24, 2026
• 49 Law Demystified Prenups and Immigration: Does a Prenup Affect a Green Card? Under Form I-864, a U.S. citizen sponsor's financial obligation to a sponsored immigrant continues even after divorce, according to United States Citizenship and Immigration Services, and a prenup generally cannot waive it.
  Adam Hollander · Jun 24, 2026
• 50 Planning Massachusetts Prenuptial Agreements: What the Law Requires, and How to Get Two Independent Attorneys Without the Law Firm Price Tag Getting a prenup in Massachusetts means working with the state's two-stage fairness test: first to determine whether it was valid, fair, and reasonable when signed, and later to determine whether enforcing it at divorce would be unconscionable given circumstances that developed during the marriage.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jul 1, 2026
• 51 News The New Power Move: Why Half of All Prenups Are Now Initiated by Women Half of all prenups at First are now initiated by women. First founder and CEO Libby Leffler joined the HumanizeHer podcast to discuss why the prenup has become a power move, what couples protect beyond money, and what an online prenup costs.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jun 12, 2026
• 52 Planning Prenup for Couples Where One Partner Has Significant Debt: How to Protect Yourself Without Punishing Your Partner Americans hold $1.28 trillion in credit card debt and $1.66 trillion in student loans, part of a record $18.8 trillion in household debt, according to the Federal Reserve Bank of New York, and a prenup is the cleanest way for one partner's balance to stay theirs.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jun 8, 2026
• 53 Planning Prenup Lawyer Near Me: What You're Actually Paying For in 2026 Family law attorneys typically charge $2,500 to $10,000+ per couple to draft a prenup, with hourly billing driving most of the cost variance.
  Sarah Kauffman · Jul 17, 2026
• 54 Planning Prenups for Tech Workers: How to Protect Stock Options, RSUs, and Pre-IPO Equity A prenup lets tech workers and startup founders define how stock options, RSUs, ESPP shares, and pre-IPO equity are treated in divorce, before any of it vests or gets divided by default state law.
  Libby Leffler · May 27, 2026
• 55 Planning Prenup Template vs. a Real Prenup: What You Actually Get With a Free Form (And What You Don't) Free prenup templates give you a fillable PDF, but not state-law compliance, financial disclosure, or the procedural safeguards a court will require to enforce it.
  Libby Leffler · Jul 23, 2026
• 56 Planning Should You Buy a Home Before or After Getting Married? How a Prenup Changes the Answer Buying a home before the wedding can speed up equity-building, but without a prenup, separate-property contributions often get tangled when the marriage begins.
  Sarah Kauffman · May 20, 2026
• 57 Trends Prenup for HENRY Couples: How High Earners (Not Rich Yet) Should Think About Financial Protection Before Marriage (2026) If you're a high-income couple with growing equity comp, big debts, and a stay-at-home-parent decision on the horizon, a prenup helps you plan now for the wealth you're still building.
  Sarah Kauffman · May 27, 2026
• 58 Education Prenuptial Agreements in Florida: What You Need to Know Before the Wedding (2026) Florida is one of the most prenup-friendly states in the country, and here's what the Sunshine State's rules actually mean for you and your partner before you say "I do."
  Libby Leffler · Jun 25, 2026
• 59 Planning What Should a Woman Ask for in a Prenup? What a woman should protect in a prenup depends on her financial position, not gender stereotypes. Whether she has more assets, fewer, or equal footing, a prenup lets her define the terms around premarital property, spousal support, career sacrifice, and inheritance before the wedding, not during a divorce. Today's agreements are built to protect both partners, fairly.
  Libby Leffler · May 20, 2026
• 60 News “Divorce Season” Is Here: Why Smart Couples Get Prenups First The early spring is peak divorce season. Learn why engaged couples are turning to prenups — and how First makes getting one online fast, affordable & legally binding.
  First Editorial Team · Apr 1, 2026